Only you can make YOU happy. You get to choose who you let get to you and what you let in. Say goodbye to negativity and chaos. Choose happiness and positivity as often as you can and watch your life progress accordingly.
We see this a lot with people not setting clear boundaries. What you allow will inevitably continue. Stop spending money, you can’t afford to spend (especially on other people), if a relationship is unhealthy and/or toxic… leave. If someone doesn’t like you for whatever reason… who cares? Take control of your life and live it. One of my favorite sayings is “You can’t blame anyone else but yourself for sitting in chains if you are the one holding the key”. Read that again. YOU control YOUR life. You have the right to set boundaries, you have the right to say NO, and you have the right to walk away from situations and people that don’t add to your well being.
If someone or something isn’t adding to your life…… Subtract it. Simple!